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- My ex got a raise. Can I ask for more support?
Dec 17, 2025
If your ex is now earning significantly more, it’s reasonable to question whether your support order still reflects what’s fair. In Pennsylvania, the law allows for adjustments when financial circumstances change, but it doesn’t happen automatically. Here’s what you need to know before you decide to take that step. Yes, you can ask for more if their income changed You can request an increase in support when your ex’s raise qualifies as a substantial change...Read More - Does retirement affect my alimony obligation?
Dec 9, 2025
You have worked hard for decades to build a career and secure your financial future. As you approach retirement age, you naturally want to know if you can stop working without facing legal trouble. For many paying spouses in Pennsylvania, the fear of working indefinitely just to meet a monthly obligation is a major source of stress. The good news is that retirement is a valid reason to revisit your court-ordered alimony. However, ending or...Read More - 4 reasons grandparents may seek sole legal custody in Pennsylvania
Dec 1, 2025
You want to keep your promise to your grandchild: that you will always be there, providing a safe harbor when life is chaotic. But if the parents’ divorce makes that promise impossible to keep through normal visitation, it is natural to consider a drastic step. Petitioning for sole legal custody is about holding the family together when the parents cannot. This action, however, is generally reserved for situations where the parents demonstrate severe inability to...Read More - 5 financial pitfalls often overlooked in divorce
Nov 30, 2025
Going through a divorce is a challenging time, but ending a marriage affects more than just emotions. It can change daily routines, family dynamics and finances. Many focus on dividing property or paying support, but some financial challenges are easy to miss. Overlooking them can cause disputes, unexpected costs and long-term problems. Understanding these five pitfalls helps make smarter decisions and plan for a stable future. 1. Retirement accounts can be tricky Dividing retirement savings...Read More - What mistakes do people make when asking for spousal support?
Nov 17, 2025
Asking for spousal support in Pennsylvania can feel stressful. Many people know they need help but do not know how to ask for it effectively. A few common mistakes can hurt your chances. When you understand what to avoid, you stay calm and protect your rights. Not preparing the correct financial information One big mistake is going to court without clear financial details. Judges look at your income, your spouse’s income and your monthly needs...Read More - What is the divorce process in Pennsylvania?
Nov 3, 2025
If you plan to end your marriage in Pennsylvania, it helps to know what to expect. The process can feel stressful, but understanding each step makes it easier to move forward with confidence. Starting the divorce To start a divorce in Pennsylvania, one spouse files a document called a complaint in divorce with the county court. This complaint lists the reason for the divorce and what the spouse requests, such as property division or support...Read More - Can a spouse refuse signing divorce papers in Pennsylvania?
Oct 30, 2025
Facing the end of your marriage feels overwhelming enough without your spouse refusing to sign the final divorce papers. When emotions run high, a non-cooperative spouse sometimes believes they hold the power to stop the process completely. Your spouse simply cannot force you to stay married indefinitely, no matter how much they resist or avoid the paperwork. What happens when a spouse refuses to sign? In Pennsylvania, the fastest way to get divorced is through...Read More - What to do if the other parent isn’t following the custody order
Oct 21, 2025
When your ex ignores a custody order, you may feel frustrated and unsure what to do next. Pennsylvania law gives you several ways to respond, and choosing the right one early helps you protect your child and avoid more conflict. Here’s what you should do if your ex isn’t following the order. Document every missed visit or violation Write down each time your ex breaks the order. Record the date, time and what happened, and...Read More - When can you seek a child support modification?
Oct 6, 2025
Child support is meant to meet your child’s financial needs, but life changes can make the original order feel out of step with reality. If your circumstances or your child’s needs change, you may wonder when you can ask the court to adjust your payments. Pennsylvania law gives you the ability to request a modification in certain situations. Income changes for either parent A significant change in income is one of the most common reasons...Read More - Why “fun” is not a luxury use of time when co-parenting
Oct 2, 2025
Co-parents must consistently juggle a host of weighty responsibilities – from providing for them financially to making sure that they’re physically and emotionally healthy – on behalf of their kids. While these responsibilities demand attention, it is also important to make time for fun. Why? For children, having space to play, laugh, and enjoy time with each parent is not a luxury—it is necessary. When co-parenting, prioritizing fun strengthens relationships, helps kids adjust to family...Read More