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- Signs a marriage is in trouble
Mar 1, 2019
Every relationship has fights, it’s part of living with someone. But how can you tell when an argument or a fight points to a deeper issue in your relationship? Here are a few red flags that may indicate your marriage is in jeopardy. Trust The foundation of a solid relationship is trust. But, there are a lot of ways you can trust someone. To have a successful marriage, you and your spouse will need to...Read More - Red flags for hidden money during a divorce
Feb 26, 2019
When a marriage in Pennsylvania begins to hit rocky waters, financial secrets can begin to grow. Some of these hidden finances can be especially troubling during a divorce, where they may originate as an attempt to deny a spouse his or her fair share of marital property. While many people are able to end their marriages without recriminations or schemes, it is important for individuals going through a more high-conflict divorce to be aware of...Read More - All about prenuptial and postnuptial agreements
Feb 11, 2019
Generally, it is not possible to directly modify a prenuptial agreement, or PNA, during a divorce. However, it may be possible to change certain agreed-upon instruments with the aid of a legal document called a postnuptial agreement. By securing the representation of a Pennsylvania attorney who has knowledge of family law, a person may gain a better chance of resolving problems stemming from onerous or unfair PNAs. Although the prenuptial agreement is often considered immutable...Read More - How do I keep my ex from badmouthing me?
Feb 1, 2019
Fighting parents can have life-long lasting effects on their child’s ability to trust in both romantic and platonic relationships. If you believe your ex-spouse is exposing your child to negative opinions about you, it’s important not to stand by. Talk it out The first step is to have a discussion with your ex-spouse in the most respectful way possible. Try not to place blame on your ex or say anything that might antagonize them. This...Read More - How dads can overcome custody bias
Feb 1, 2019
It’s not uncommon for men to feel like the courts favor women in custody battles. This bias stems from our culture’s roots — when women were not able to work, but instead cared for the children and the home. Today, however, these ideas are recognized as dated and sexist. If you believe the courts may hold a bias against you for being a man, following these tips can help you prove your dedication as a...Read More - Setting up a parenting schedule
Jan 28, 2019
As anyone in Pennsylvania who’s had their marriage dissolved knows, divorce can be an arduous process for the parents and even more for the children. It involves breaking up a family and permanently changing a living situation that the children had grown accustomed to. Given how unsettling the whole divorce process may be for the young ones, parents should do everything in their power to make the transition as smooth as possible. For starters, parents...Read More - The role of money in a divorce
Jan 14, 2019
Pennsylvania residents who are married for the first time have a roughly 50/50 chance that it will last forever. The odds of success are lower for second and subsequent marriages. However, there may be compelling financial reasons to avoid a divorce if possible. For instance, married couples who own a home will need to figure out what to do with it. While a person could keep the home, it can be hard to maintain it...Read More - Is asking for a change in child support payments selfish?
Jan 9, 2019
Divorced parents are encouraged to cooperate with each other in the interest of their child’s development and overall happiness. If you are working toward a positive co-parent relationship with your ex, or have already established one, you may worry that “stirring the pot” could mess everything up. On the other hand, if you’re unable to make ends meet with the current child support amount, you may not have a choice but to seek a modification...Read More - Managing divorce with new tax rules in mind
Jan 2, 2019
Starting at the beginning of 2019, couples filing for divorce in Pennsylvania and throughout the rest of the United States will have to do so with tax rule changes in mind, particularly if spousal support will be involved. This is happening because the Tax Cuts and Jobs Act (TCJA) changes how alimony is handled for tax purposes. Under the new law, alimony will not be tax-deductible for the payor, and the recipient won’t be required...Read More - Can I keep my ex’s dates away from my kids?
Dec 19, 2018
One way to move on from the hurt and anguish of a divorce is to start dating again. But, if the thought of your ex-spouse moving on makes you a little squeamish, you’re not alone — especially if cheating was involved in your marriage. Worst yet, you may feel most uncomfortable with the idea of your children calling another person “Mom” or “Dad.” Here’s when you can do something about it. Why does this person...Read More